How does the song go: "Girls are different!" Yes, that's right, because the right to turn a girl on massage – it is also big science. Even touch for each individual: some like gentle stroking, someone rough spanking, and someone in General does not tolerate any tenderness and ready to go right to the sex.
If you want to get a lady in bed, it is necessary to know the type of perception. Three of them:
- Audialyperceive the world through hearing;
- Visuals, which is most important is that they see;
- Kinesthetic – perceive the world with the touch;
If the third group everything is clear, and the best thing is to bring the girl's hands, then the other sometimes will have trouble, because they will be much more demanding.
Important preparation is to relax your partner. If you are in an intimate setting and guessed what her type of perception, it is important for the visual beauty of perfectly clean bed, preferably covered with rose petals and placed candles.
For auditory General, all these attributes are not so are important, the main thing that sounded good music, and she said a lot of good compliments.
But kinesthetic prefer to go directly to hugs and caresses. And only when it "warmed up", you are ready to have sex.
How to touch a girl to initiate
In any case, without the foreplay not do, even though in order to know "where is his button". Of course, do not just climb into her panties that there's all right to touch it could cause a backlash.
Carefully, moving from the top to the bottom, study the lady with touches and hugs, and do not forget about compliments. If the girl in response to your words, you plug the mouth with a kiss, then she doesn't need your talkativeness, it requires more action. Rubs ear to your lips – more than words. Furiously cuddles up and running the hands along the body, it needs lots of affection.
Therefore, the weak zone. Hair, face, neck, shoulders, wrists, chest, abdomen, back, buttocks, legs, and, of course, the main area of her crotch. All these areas have many erogenous, and it is necessary to know how to turn a girl on fingers and lips.
As for the hair and face is the first thingthat it is necessary to start the foreplay. The stroking of the hair, together with the kissing of the face (under the main focus on lips), it is pleasant to any girl, besides it is also a psychological moment.
The neck is a particularly sensitive area, it is not necessary to immediately kiss – a light touch, literally with the tips of your fingers stroke behind the ear and along the neck. Like her? Boldly kiss. Inner line of the arms to the fingers must be also very pleasant to your lady. Therefore, act in the same way as with the neck.
The special zone is, of course, the chest. But some women from assertive caresses and kisses the nipples can be uncomfortable. She has the impression that the lower abdomen is starting to ache. Apparently, it has something to do physiologically. And if your girl doesn't want to hurt you, and believes that it is better to be quiet, she's just going to bear this torture.
Of course, affection of the breast is necessary to begin hands. Massage movements to "walk" on the side to iron the Breasts around the nipples. Just do not remove the chest like the switches on the old radio, if you catch the wave. It's not very nice and kind of ridiculous. Stroking, pinching, touching nipples – nipples become hard, so it's time for them to kiss, lightly biting and sucking and tickling tongue. It starts with breast severe agitation – she begins to breathe intermittently and tremors.
The back and stomach. Be careful with the belly, there is still the internal organs. No severe pressure. Only light strokes and kisses. But back need a massage intensively in the flesh to strong compression, especially in the "cat zone" between the shoulder blades and along the back to the waist.
Affection in the area of the buttocks is not less sensitive, and by the men they give erotic pleasure. Knead and squeeze the buttocks will be pleased for both partners. By the way, for women, men's buttocks are not less attractive than men female.
Feet. The inner side of the thighs are the most sensitive, because it is located near the perineum, as it is the weakest point of girls. With the feet – be careful, many women it causes a tickling, and her "hee-hee-hee" and repulsion, then, with footsteps lighter. But in others, on the contrary, massage – a balm for the soul.
And, of course, the genitals. By the way while fondling other parts of the body to properly and quickly bring a girl ignore her crotch, but to indulge excessively is not necessary. Just "casually" touching her labia, casually running a finger between them. And then, when your lady warmed up like a boiling samovar, to take up her vulva to caress with two fingers on the clitoris, massaging it and sometimes once inside of the vagina, and back to return to the caresses of the clitoris.
Many of the fairer sex, the clitoris can cause an orgasm and sexual intercourse – not how hard you try, the passion will not. Well, if the lady herself didn't lie, simulating an orgasm. But in women, it can occur, in contrast to men.
How to tie a girl and to initiate, if she wants it
Who remembers the film "wild Orchid"? There's a couple love loved those games, with a new, unusual sensations. So, update feeling this way is not superfluous. Of course, it is ridiculous to tie a girl duct-taped to a chair to "steam" it.
Best of all – lying on the bed, tying her hands to the back. Pleasant helplessness and the feeling that it now will caress. Alternatively – blindfold so she could fully immerse in the touch. And equipment violations you already know.